I am a Christian, I am a mother, I am an Ideal Protein coach, I am an elite athlete, I am a food addict!
I think that people assume things about others. Yes, I am an ideal protein coach and I workout daily, sometimes twice a day. I love being healthy and I love eating. Everyday is a struggle to make good choices. I used to be the person that would hide food. I would buy it and eat it in the car or sneak it into my room. I took the back stairs out of the kitchen if I heard someone coming down the front stairs or from the living room. I would order food at work and justify it by explaining that my job was stressful and I went to the gym this morning. I spent at least 50% of my day living in secret and feeling guilt. My social life seemed great and I would meet friends for drinks and appetizers weekly. I can't remember most of what we discussed because it was really all about what I was ordering and where did the server go, my drink is empty, I need more ranch. This is normal, right??? There is nothing wrong with me, everyone eats in secret??? NO!
I know how to lose weight. It is all about what you put in your mouth. I have done a ton of diets and meal planning and exercise programs. I have lost about 400 pounds in my adult life. It was just the same 40 over and over again. The bottom line is, I AM A FOOD ADDICT and I always let the food win! I feel that this addiction is a unique struggle because you MUST eat to live. Other addictions can be eliminated (I am not minimizing the struggle of any addiction) from a person completely. For instance, if I were addicted to cocaine and attended a treatment program, I never need cocaine again to live my life. But food is necessary for life and our society revolves around eating. "Hey, its your birthday, lets eat and drink." "Hey, you got a new job, lets eat and drink." "Hey, I had a horrible week, lets eat and drink." AND healthy food is expensive.
So how does a food addict overcome?????
1. Find your WHY! Why is it important for you to be healthy? As a mom I have always put my child's needs above my own. I run around wondering and worrying if he has what he needs and can he get to where he needs to go. I spend my evenings in bleachers eating popcorn, hamburgers, nachos, and always a diet soda. There is nothing I enjoy more than my son.
Then why have I let him down by not taking care of my health? He is my why! I want to always be able to be an active participant in his life. I want to be able and active when he is married and has his own children. I want him to model my healthy life.
2. Be ACCOUNTABLE! Ideal Protein at Innovative Aesthetics was my accountability. I was/am extremely independent and controlling. When I stepped out and asked for help from my coach I was forced to let go of some control. IT FELT AMAZING! I wasn't alone. There are others with my struggle and they overcame it, so can I. We are here for you for the rest of your life! That's a long time and got even longer since I lost 75 pounds and am living a healthy lifestyle.
3. SHIFT your mind! I eat out all the time. I still have social outings with friends but now they are about the friends. I know more about their jobs and families. I order healthy options and I am not afraid to ask for something made special. Lets face it, I am paying for it and I deserve special treatment. I also tip big! I actually went through Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Years, The Superbowl, and Easter on phase 1. I can honestly say that I enjoyed my family more this past year then I ever have in the past. It was not about stuffing my face with as much food as possible. I absorbed the time and really enjoyed the socialization. It felt amazing!
4.CELEBRATE YOUR VICTORIES! No not by eating and drinking. Go to the store and try on smaller clothes. I was so ecstatic the first time I went shopping and did not have to go into the PLUS section. I sometimes just try on certain sizes because I can, and it feels good. Trying on the clothes made it real for me. I really am in that size... OMG! Go get a massage or take an sunny afternoon off work and spend it outside fishing or walking.
TIPS FOR A RECOVERING FOOD ADDICT
When you are in maintenance you can enjoy some of your favorites again, but eat for enjoyment and NEVER emotion. If you are thinking about eating for emotion, go for a walk or do something else physical. If you can slip away from people spend five minutes in silence thinking about your WHY!
If I am at a party and there is cake I eat my piece right before I'm ready to leave, then I can't go back for more. If it doesn't taste as good as I thought it would, I immediately throw it away. DON'T finish it just to be polite! It is not rude to value your health. Your friends are not going to be there tomorrow when you feel like crap because you ate it anyway.
When eating out be prepared. Look up the menu before you go and decide what to eat. Don't let the server give you and menu and order first. then you can't change your mind because something looked good or someone else ordered something that sounds good. ENJOY the company!
I will struggle with food addiction for the rest of my life BUT it will no longer win!